The Power of Not Knowing

I just posted 3 tweets about people's characters I hate the most. The winner so far is people who always tells or promises something but in reality they will never do it, or omdo (omong doang) you might say in Bahasa's slang word. Basically just people who's telling bullshit every time they made a promise. Well no, not that bad actually lol, it's NATO (no action talk only) kind of people (it's still THAT bad isn't it?). And the runner up is people who always makes a good imaging of themself in social media. Don't get me wrong, it's okay to make a good image of yourself, it's a must actually. But, if you're starting to fake it, or even deny your actual character by adding your fake 'good' personality.

First of all, before I rant too much in this post I wanna make a little disclaimer. Now I declare my blog as my trashcan where I put all of my thoughts whenever I'm pissed or happy (but most of them probably when I'm pissed lol). If you want to find some inspirations or some informative posts, you won't find it in this blog, not yet for now. Second, back to the actual topic of this post, I always mention 'always' on the characters I mentioned above. That means if you do it sometimes, I still can understand and forgive you. But if you ALWAYS do 2 things above, mmmm mmmh me no like you.

Ok back to the topic now. So those are two characters I hate the most in people. But then, I rethink about it again. I started to think, is it even possible that I hate them characters because of my own problems? That it is my problems if I don't like it, not their mistake because it's a character, it's natural. Well, I found that I hate those characters because my close friends have that and I hate it. And then I think again, do I hate it because I know them too much. I hate my friends' character because I know them too much. In my opinion, when you know someone too much, you can't have expectations from them anymore. You know how is it going to work. But then, you still persist to have expectations but it crashes. You totally know it's gonna happened, but you denied. The next thing you know is you blame yourself for being so naive about it, to expect something's impossible to happen. And now you're pissed by your own mistake.

Because of that, I think that not knowing about everything is good, is great. You'll expect everything and guess the result with nothing to lose. If it's failed, you will hope for another chance. Because you don't know the end yet, and you keep expecting it.